Make Lust Last

Build strong bonds, and better sex will follow

It's been well documented that married people have sex more often than single people do. But it's not always great sex. If you're looking to recapture the manic sexual frenzy of your first months together, fuzzy handcuffs and herbal supplements just won't cut it. In fact, you'll probably feel just as stymied as you did before you tried to amp up the action, says Sandra Scantling, Psy.D., a certified sex therapist. "People think lust is a prerequisite for having great sex, but it's just one biological piece of attraction," she cautions. So what will elevate the ecstasy? Simply being up close and personal, in the share-nearly-anything, build-rock-solid-trust sense. "Comfort is the best aphrodisiac," Scantling says. "It's about the lasting experience of connection." Dive into this guide to keeping your physical and emotional bonds strong, and you'll never fear stumbling into a long-term sex rut.

Is She After Your Money?

Is she (really) into you? Or is it just that she's bored and doesn't feel like paying for dinner tonight? Careful, buddy.
By Michael Vu,

Is She After Your Money?

Is She After Your Money?
A common reason single men cite for why a woman chooses one man over another is because he has “the cash.” This idea limits all kinds of things about yourself -- if you believe it. If women do really choose men because of the size of their bank account (i.e., this has nothing to do with you personally), shouldn’t you be thankful and not upset about it? Why would anyone want to date someone who solely relies on materialistic possessions? And how long do you think that relationship will last?

Masturbation: Ask Dr. Chaves

Is masturbation bad for you? Dr. Chaves has some surprising answers for readers on self-love and more.
By Dr. Hernando Chaves, Sexologist

Masturbation: Ask Dr. Chaves

Masturbation: Ask Dr. Chaves

too much masturbation?

Hi Dr. Chaves,

I’m 20 years old, and I masturbate regularly. I have been doing this for the past five to six years. Will I be affected in any manner? Please help me.

What You Do, What She Sees

You think what you're doing is innocent, but that's not what she sees. Here's how to avoid those prickly misunderstandings.
By Giulia Simolo, Relationship Correspondent

What You Do, What She Sees

 
What You Do, What She Sees
It’s definitely not easy to predict how your girlfriend’s going to interpret your behavior. Most misunderstandings and arguments arise because one of you has grabbed the wrong end of the stick. If you’ve reacted melodramatically or done something that she has misunderstood, it’s not up to you to change. You can’t always help what she sees, after all. But you can prevent the onslaught of drama by taking note of some typical misconceptions so that you’re ahead of the game.

Here are some examples of what you do versus what she sees.

5 Types Of Women To Avoid

After populating his little black book, The Player offers a comprehensive list of the types of girls you should avoid like the plague.
By The Player, Pickup Specialist

5 Types Of Women To Avoid
A Player is not someone who gets theirs and leaves a trail of broken hearts. A Player is not someone who jumps from one shallow bed to the next. A Player is that person who lives life like a legend, puts a woman into a passionate romance and works his job like he built the company. This Player in particular has covered the globe as a photojournalist. Camera in one hand and laptop in the other, I’ve seen the best and the worst across time zones and international waters. In these travels, the foundations of how to play have been learned.

Buy Lingerie For Her Body Type

There's no point in buying your girl lingerie if it doesn't accentuate her sexiness. Thankfully, we have all the panty-shopping tips you need.
By Jasmine Leigh, Women's Sexuality Correspondent