Top 10: First Date Tips, Starring Vanessa Minnillo

From how to ask her out to where to take her, sexy Vanessa Minnillo presents her Top 10: First Date Tips exclusively to AskMen.
By Vanessa Minnillo,

As the latest sexy spokeswoman for AXE Shower, you can imagine that one thing Vanessa Minnillo thinks every guy should do before a first date is take a shower. We hope we've made that pretty clear over the years too. While smelling good is indeed a plus, AskMen asked Vanessa to fill us in on her 10 most useful tips for a first date that will take you from the start of a perfect evening with a new lady to the end.

Is She After Your Money?

Is she (really) into you? Or is it just that she's bored and doesn't feel like paying for dinner tonight? Careful, buddy.
By Michael Vu,

Is She After Your Money?

Is She After Your Money?
A common reason single men cite for why a woman chooses one man over another is because he has “the cash.” This idea limits all kinds of things about yourself -- if you believe it. If women do really choose men because of the size of their bank account (i.e., this has nothing to do with you personally), shouldn’t you be thankful and not upset about it? Why would anyone want to date someone who solely relies on materialistic possessions? And how long do you think that relationship will last?

Masturbation: Ask Dr. Chaves

Is masturbation bad for you? Dr. Chaves has some surprising answers for readers on self-love and more.
By Dr. Hernando Chaves, Sexologist

Masturbation: Ask Dr. Chaves

Masturbation: Ask Dr. Chaves

too much masturbation?

Hi Dr. Chaves,

I’m 20 years old, and I masturbate regularly. I have been doing this for the past five to six years. Will I be affected in any manner? Please help me.

What You Do, What She Sees

You think what you're doing is innocent, but that's not what she sees. Here's how to avoid those prickly misunderstandings.
By Giulia Simolo, Relationship Correspondent

What You Do, What She Sees

 
What You Do, What She Sees
It’s definitely not easy to predict how your girlfriend’s going to interpret your behavior. Most misunderstandings and arguments arise because one of you has grabbed the wrong end of the stick. If you’ve reacted melodramatically or done something that she has misunderstood, it’s not up to you to change. You can’t always help what she sees, after all. But you can prevent the onslaught of drama by taking note of some typical misconceptions so that you’re ahead of the game.

Here are some examples of what you do versus what she sees.

5 Types Of Women To Avoid

After populating his little black book, The Player offers a comprehensive list of the types of girls you should avoid like the plague.
By The Player, Pickup Specialist

5 Types Of Women To Avoid
A Player is not someone who gets theirs and leaves a trail of broken hearts. A Player is not someone who jumps from one shallow bed to the next. A Player is that person who lives life like a legend, puts a woman into a passionate romance and works his job like he built the company. This Player in particular has covered the globe as a photojournalist. Camera in one hand and laptop in the other, I’ve seen the best and the worst across time zones and international waters. In these travels, the foundations of how to play have been learned.

Buy Lingerie For Her Body Type

There's no point in buying your girl lingerie if it doesn't accentuate her sexiness. Thankfully, we have all the panty-shopping tips you need.
By Jasmine Leigh, Women's Sexuality Correspondent