Is She After Your Money?

Is she (really) into you? Or is it just that she's bored and doesn't feel like paying for dinner tonight? Careful, buddy.
By Michael Vu,

Is She After Your Money?

Is She After Your Money?
A common reason single men cite for why a woman chooses one man over another is because he has “the cash.” This idea limits all kinds of things about yourself -- if you believe it. If women do really choose men because of the size of their bank account (i.e., this has nothing to do with you personally), shouldn’t you be thankful and not upset about it? Why would anyone want to date someone who solely relies on materialistic possessions? And how long do you think that relationship will last?


Something interesting to consider is the notion that the more cash you spend on her the less likely the relationship will continue. Consider the possibility that a woman will actually go out with you because her belly is empty, she's bored or nothing was on TV that night. The worst is hearing when a girl is just “passing time” on you until another (read: better) guy comes along. Yes, gentleman, there are women out there like this. Take it upon yourself to read the bottom-line factor. You’ll save yourself time and money.

What doesn’t involve money?

The zoo, the park, a picnic, a long walk by a body of water, coffee, working on an artistic project together -- the ideas here are limitless. Take her to a dinner and movie and she’ll remember you as fondly as every other dude who’s done the same. Taking the time and being creative, however, shows your uniqueness. Separation (from the competition) is welcome.

Drinking and dating

How many drinks do you buy her? If you are meeting at the dive bar for the first time, none. Yes, none. Don’t buy her any drinks. In fact, Mr. Nice Guy, why don’t you be a challenge for once (unlike the other dudes offering their life savings for her) and get her to buy you a drink! Again, different is welcome.

Just look at her and say: “So are you going to buy me a drink or not.” Be dry, playful and witty. Come off as an ass and you’ll miss the intended outcome.

Buying her things is manipulation

When the rich guy is being overly generous with his dollar, in a sense, he realizes that he is saying to his partner: "I’m not good enough for you so I will use monetary resources to compensate." Key word: compensate.

Someone who is confident (like someone who can offer to go to zoos and look at animals all day) doesn’t need to manipulate women into liking him. They have qualities strong enough to hold ground.

what money doesn’t buy

Women do date for materialistic possessions. In the end, it’s up to you to decide if you want to date a professional dater. As the nice guy, if you happen to be rich, be honest with yourself on reading the reality factor. Do not believe that by spending more money she’ll stay around longer. She might. But unlike copious amounts of material possessions, intelligence and confidence cannot be stolen from you.

There are tons of beautiful women out there. Let me repeat: There are tons of beautiful women from the inside out existing on this planet. Not all women date for the mighty dollar

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